I just found this site and after reading a few entries I am hoping that maybe someone can give me some advice... ok... so here's the scenario:
I dated this girl for 3 years.. she was the absolute love of my life.. i mean, we're talking I fell in love with her the moment I saw her, and vice versa. Our relationship wasn't without its problems, but they were never that bad or anything... nothing we couldn't work out.. anyways, during the last summer we were together, she started to hang out a lot with one of my "friends" who I incidentally had been roommates with the year before. Well, I guess one night she kissed him and realized she had "feelings" for him.... so she breaks up with me and starts to date him immediately.... this goes on for a few months... all this time we never really spoke.. but then a few months after the breakup we spoke to each other... one thing led to another and we ended up getting back together for a few weeks... but of course she decides things aren't working out because the whole time she is with me she is thinking of him, but she also says the whole time she is with him she is thinking of me... so she goes back to him... they are still dating now...
the one really big kicker in all of this is that the guy she is dating, my so-called friend (who i don't talk to anymore) lives 3 doors down from me in my apartment complex.. so I get to see her car in the parking lot and see her and him together EVERYDAY! I really don't know how to deal with this, since I still have feelings for her (though I have no intention of ever speaking to her again) and I want desperately to get over her... its just that she is around all of the time, and we have mutual friends that her and her boyfriend hang out with still... its really just one big mess and I have no clue how to deal with any of this.. I really feel like I'm drowning.. any advice that anyone could give me would be greatly appreciated... thanks, and sorry for making this such a long story....
