pago10

good, im glad i could help anyone in need

This is how i feel, and this is what makes me feel better.. if you arent being true to yourself, i believe it is impossible to succeed at anything.. I wrote this 2 nights again Chris To dream of the person you would like to be, Is wasting the person you truly are. Being True to yourself doesn't mean Not loving, not feeling It's a feeling of love felt within your heart. Your heart knows what you feel Your mind knows what you love At times you cant feel, you cant love You forget who you are, and who you used to be Looking deep within yourself, ones sprit can heal. Your heart will fall into place Your mind will clear Your soul, at ease Then you know what being true to yourself really is.

so i guess the real question now is. What do you do if you are truly inlove with your friend of the opposite sex male or female. I believe anyones best bet is to get it out in the open and express to them how you feel. If you are "true" friends with them, your realtionship will make it through this hard time if the other dosent feel the same. remember friendship is all about being there for someone through the rough and good times of there life, and i conclude this situation shouldent be any different.

Yea i am definatly curious as to what girls think about this... Why cant your best guy friend ever be yuor boyfriend?. I mean he treats you right, he knows what you like, he has listened to you through good and bad times.. WHy would you never be with someone like that? Pago~

Shysoul, i completely agree with you, i think its better to be good friends with a girl before getting into a romantic realtionship. But how come it is most girls dont feel this way? If guys try to progress the realtionship to a romantic one, and the girl isent feeling it, most of the time that ends up in a ruined friendship. Would any girls like to comment on this?

We need to do a something a study if you will.. I have been reading through the posts and atleast half of that are about i have fallen for my best friend. I think in most cases its the guys fallen for the girls. I say we do a survay.. being.. How many guys have fallen for girls who are there best friends.. And the other option, how many girls have fallen for guy best friends. I really believe it will be one way. But lets get something going here so we can really understand the true underlying fact why does this happen!!!

Dudei would say go for it, if you dont u will never know. I have been in this situation 2 times almost exacally the same, and i passed on both times and i lost the girl and the friendship. JUst do it, if you dont see will really see you as her little brother, once you get that statis i believe your chances of ever getting with her romantically are DONE!!! so do us all a faver and next time she throws u on the bed pull her down with you and give her a nice fat wet one!!! GL