Every time one of my friends point out some girl to me, and I say I don't find her attractive, they act like I'm superficial, and all I'm into is looks. The girls they point out are by no means attractive to me, and isn't that what matters? that I find the person attractive. It's really frustrating to be labelled superficial for no reason. I've been told I'm a good looking guy and I'd like a good looking girl. However, some people think I'm asking for too much.
It's not like I even have a "type" or anything, it's just that some girls are attractive to me and some aren't, why should I have to lie about my preferences to please some one else?
looks are important, but personality counts even more, it's not like I'm just into looks and don't care about personality. But are people even interested in getting to know someone that doesn't from a good first impression (usually by looks, mannerisms etc.)
Every body goes after people they find attractive, so why do I have to feel like I'm not supposed to? It's an odd feeling to have...any advice?
