UltimoDragoon

Actually, It wouldn't really impact the friendship as much for me as it mgiht for her. We will always be good friends, definatly. But she is just.. I don't know. Everything I am looking for and more, but the choice is the actual hard part. I am almost 100% sure I want to ask her but there are no obvious signs. Just really hard to notice things that I'm not even sure of, thus the name of this topic lol. I am just looking for advice, not a decision.

Haha, I am a bit tired right now. Yea, I really love her personality. She is smart, funny, kind, she is a bit shy, but thats no biggie.. I just like her alot >

Alrighty, first off, I will describe the situtaiton I am in. I met this girl online that goes to a school near us, we got along pretty well, and we decided to call each other. Well, we talk roughly once a day, for 10minutes-2 hours depending on what I am doing at the time, and needless to say, I have slowly gotten to like her alot. ANYWAY, I am sorta outgoing, I have alot of guts (I ain't afraid to say I like you and such), my problem is sorta different. She is shy (I am shy in person and only then, and once I talk to you for like 3 minutes, I am fine) and I asked her if she liked me before. I didn't get a yes, but I didn't get a no either. I am a virgin kisser (don't ask) and she knows this, and even commented maybe she could fix that. Well, about a week ago, she made the comment that she liked me alot, but we needed to talk. If you are even slightly educated in psychology, you can guess what's coming. Well, she never really did get into that talk and I never pushed her into it, until 5 days later. When I did inquire about it, she said she didn't know anymore, that she was unsure. So, today I went to a football game, and there she was too! Well, we didn't get to see each other much, but each time we did we would always say hi, and she said that we need to talk tomarrow, so heres my dilemma. I am thinknig about doing an ultimatum. For those who don't know what that is, it means like an Ultimate Dicision of some sort. Usually used in War's sometimes. Used in common day occurrences too. Well, I was gonna tell her that I like her alot, that i would be happily willing to try to work something out and do things with her, and that I would be commited (she wants a long term relationship) amoung other reasons. She is willing to go places with me (We have gone bowling twice and to a football game once, and we were gonna goto the movies but I couldn't snag a ride) I would pretty much be her to go out with me. The only thing holding me back really is I don't want our great friendship to be damaged. What do you all think? If you need more info, just say so.