HI,
Me and my best guy mate have always had a very close, flirty relationship, we spend a lot of time together and we're on the same course at university. I never used to think about him as anything more than a very good mate though,even though most of my friends and his were convinced we're going out, but then a coiuole of months ago he started staying round my house quite a lot- say 2 or 3 times a week and eventually we started taking it all a bit further. I started to fall for him and eventually told him how I felt but he told me he couldnt see us going out like that, and though it hurt I accepted it as I didnt want to ruin our friendship. But he still acts very coupley with me and I'm very confused as to how he feels! He spends most nights around mine, watching movies and chating until the early morning, and often ends up falling asleep and staying over. He always hugs me and kisses my neck and he gets very protective when I'm around other guys. If he's ever feeling low he'll call me up even at 2 or 3 in the morning, and recently we've been going on a lot of "dates" alone to the movies or for meals and the other night we both got drunk and ended up making love. But he still chats up other girls and I still dont think he wants to go out. I know i'm in a bad situation and I've tried moving on and going out on dates with other people, but when it comes down to it, I think I've actually fallen in love with him, and I dont know what to do? can anyone out there help me. tiff*
