It's not an issue of the kids not being disiplined for fighting. It's the fact that my ex's mother,( his daughter's grandmother) has so much influence over her. As I stated, the grandmother has convinced her that she is number one and that my son is wrong. This woman wants custody of her and my ex has told me that his mother has done other things in the past to attempt to get his daughter. There is no way to "win" against his mom because she has taken care of his daughter, after school and such, for years. His daughter is very, very close with her grandmother. Because his ex-wife has been such a horrible mother, this child has clung to her grandmother as a mother figure. My ex has always been a good father but an 8 y.o. little girl needs a female figure in her life and the grandmother has filled that role.
My main questions is do I wait and hope that we will get back or do I just except that we are friends and move on?