frank88

thank you guys so much, your advice has really helped me out i think that just knowing now what i can do rather than just sittin aroud and waiting for something to happen that i have an idea of how to go about helping my self maked e feel so much better. i think that i jst had no idea of a direction to go about it thank you

idk what it is but for the past couple of months i have been feeling very down and lonely. its not like i dont have any friends and i dont have any problems in my family. i dont know what it is. i think it os that im just lonely, and i feel like i need someone to talk to, like to fill an emotional void is or something. i have a friend like thatbut i think ineed a girlfriend or something like that. The truth is i dont really have any friends that are girls that i speak to outside of school. its not that i dont like girls its just that i find it very hard to talk to them, espicially those that i find attractive. its not something i like about myself, i am a very shy person. when i look back on some friendships that ive had with girls i ralize how dumb i was because i can see so many signs that show that the girl was interested in me. now i am even afraid to go upt girls because because i think they are too hot, or popular, or cool for me. i need some advice on how to change this because these feelings are affecting almost every part of myself, i find myself thinking about girls so much that i dont get any of my school work done, i jsut stay in my room, listen to music and think. i dont know what to do. how can i turn myself around.

since the summer started my friends have separated into 2 groups that now dont like each other and i am now stuck in the middle and it has caused a big problem for me and the worst part has just started. Last weekend half of my friends went upstate and drank while they were there. u see one group parties and stuff like that the othe group just chills and never do anything rebellious. anyways the friends that went upstate go caught and now are blaming the other group for rattin them out. the thing is though i am getting blamed for telling the "good" friends about the others drinking, which i didnt, but only one person seems to believe me.The others are really mad at me even though it was not possible for the friends i didnt tell to rat them out. The 'good' friends did know, though. now i am hearing it from both groups and i feel like i am probably gona have to chose by siding with either group but i have been friends with people from each one for over 10 years and i am really depressed and angry. how can i make my friends elieve me w/o picking sides i tried apologizing telling them i didnt tell and even trying to get tem out of trouble but my one friend just doesnt seem to believe me. WHAT SHPULD I DO!!!!!!