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    In a complicated situation

    in Dating Advice

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    2 minutes ago, Alokinga said:

     I haven't seen for a long time is interested in going to a concert with me, but my parents are coming too because we already decided to go together. Do I let her buy her own ticket and miss out on this opportunity or somehow invite her too?

    If you are interested in her as a date don't tag along with your parents. Get tickets for the two of you as a real date.  You can explain to your parents. But asking her to buy a ticket and tag along with your parents isn't a date, so it depends on if you just want a music buddy or something more. 

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    He lied about his age

    in Relationship Advice

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    17 minutes ago, pmw06092016 said:

    … After coming back from being away I saw a letter on his table which revealed he’s actually 54 so 15 years older than me not 5. I was in complete shock. I confronted him, he said his friends said all men lie about age on dating apps and he feels a lot younger and wanted a certain age bracket so put his age lower,

    Sorry this happened. You must feel betrayed. Unfortunately you two hit it off well and only then did he reveal his deception and only upon confrontation. Hopefully you will be able to either let go and consider the relationship or more forward. 

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    Guys that help the damsel in distress....

    in Relationship Advice

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    4 hours ago, Kwothe28 said:

    . I dunno which one is worse, those women who exploit that, or those men who willingly allow to be exploited. 

    The oldest profession is all about that. There are high maintenance divas and divos everywhere. There's also  prince charming fairy tales.  

     

     

    Guys that help the damsel in distress....

    in Relationship Advice

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    27 minutes ago, yogacat said:

    ..It's a play out of a playbook to trigger a man's hero instinct in order for women to think that they need you even if you are garbage, 

    It goes both ways. There are plenty of rescuers that are women. They mother and coddle men.   Agree that both the rescuers and the "fragile" have major self esteem issues. Still not sure what this rant is really about with the switch hitting from men are "simps" to women are damsels? 

    Why get married if you are a cheat?

    in Infidelity

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    Please consult an attorney for information advice and support. Please keep your cool no matter what and don't do anything that will get you in trouble legally such as confronting this guy and trying to have an altercation. You're jeopardizing yourself and your children. 

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    my girlfriend hates my therapist

    in Emotions and Feelings

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    13 minutes ago, AliasMcnutFace said:

    she feels like it changes my behaviour, which then leaks onto our relationship. that was the original problem that she had with me going. 

    Exactly. This isn't about the merits of therapy or your therapist. This is about camping at her place afterwards in a withdrawn bad mood shutting her out.

    This you can fix by going home after therapy. Don't show up at her place as an "escape" from home. Only hang out there when you're ready willing and able to participate meaningfully in the relationship rather than withdraw. Her problem is with you, not therapy or your therapist. 

     

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