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ok, here's the situation gang. over the last couple of weeks i have been seeing a particular young woman whom i get along with really well. we see each other most days and lately have been spending more and more time together. here's the rub though, she has a boyfriend right now that she has been seeing for six months or so. she says he doesnt mean much to her and that she really enjoys being with me, yet she doesnt seem to be in much of a hurry to get rid of him. he is overly possesive of her, always calling her to find out what she's doing and who she is with. added to the fact the guy never bothers to come and see her, makes me wonder why she would want to keep him around at all. this of course, leaves me wondering where i stand in this whole situation. don't get me wrong, i am not head over heels for this girl, but i am not sure i like the idea of being her bit on the side if you know what i mean.

I thought it would be a good idea to hear what everyone thinks of as a good first date. Where to go? What to do? Tips, Suggestions, Advice. Post your ideas here and lets see what everyone says...

i have a job that takes me to various areas in the city and there is a girl that works in a mall that i regularly work at. i have struck up conversation with this girl and have chatted with her several times now. she seems like a wonderful person and i want to take things a little further. here is the BUT however, her friend in the shop tells me that this girl just broke up with her first boyfriend whom she had been dating for a few years. on top of that scenario, the manager at her work gave her a bit of a telling off for spending too much time talking to me. i think given the opportunity this could turn into something good, but now what should have been simple has become somewhat complicated. any advice would certainly be welcome...