So me and my girlfriendl just 'celebrated our 2 year anniversary 2 weeks ago. She lives at home, 3 hours away and is coming to college this month and will be just down the road from me. Last week she talked to a guy she knows at work, someone who me and the guys friend had told her that he likes her and was flirting with her, but she would always say we were stupid for thinking that and that we were wrong.
She decided to go to the drive-ins last saturday and told me that it was going to be her, the guy, 3 of his guy friends, his girlfriend, and another girl. She went and I trusted her especially since his girlfriend was there. She got back and told me what all had happened and nothing was wrong. Today she was trying to send me a link that was in her email and it didnt work, I know her email and logged in to go to the link, and found an email from the guy that said something along the lines that "I have deep feelings for you. (KISSES), wherever you will let me."
I asked her about it and she denied getting any email at all I told her not to lie to me and tell me the truth about 10 times and she kept denying it and then I flat out told her and she said "im sorry" and I asked her what happened at the drive ins and she said nothing and in growing anger because I could tell she was lying I finally got (what I believe is) the truth.
She went out and it was just her and the guy and 2 other guys who were in different cars and the other 2 left halfway through the first movie in a double-feature. She said that later she was looking at him and he tried to kiss her and did so on the cheek and that was it and I asked her again and she said well he kissed her neck too and that she was "pushing" him off. But she said that he kissed her and was trying to get on her side of the car and was kissing her while she "resisted" and finally they left and he took her back to her car. She has been lying to me about what all happened and about the emails and especially about him kissing her and I can tell that she is lying about that too.
I love her but I dont know what to do. I trusted her and she has seemed to be trustworthy until this, now I dont know what to do, whether to trust that she is telling me the truth or to tell her to go to hell for what she did, especially for not telling me after specifically asking her if there is anything she wants to tell me over the last week every night because I knew she was hiding something. SORRY FOR THE LONG READ! What should I do?
