takbeau

you know, sometimes it takes loyalty to get what you want..] in my opinion, i think you still should wait since she has nevertold you point blank that SORRY BUD BUT I DON'T LIKE YOU.. my advice would be to go with what she wants and hold your horses..like i said, sometimes it takes only loyalty and may i add, patience, to get what you want..otherwise, you might regret it when she decides to go out already and you find that you're stuck with some girl who you never really liked in the first place.

you said you can get paranoid over not being able to go out with her...hmm..actually, i think you should not worry..not being able to go out with her as her date is better than not being connected with her at all..besides, the way you hang out as friends would just be the same when you get to hang out as two people who are dating.the only difference it could make is that in the latter, there COULD be intimacy between the two of you which the former situation could avoid since you're only friends... next, i think you're trying to interpret what she told you about you hanging out as friends first BEFORE you go out.honestly, no one could ever interpret what's on a person's mind or what she's trying to say..the bottomline is: WAIT..

i have this ex whom i think is spreading a rumor about me that i have recently BEGGED him to court me again..honestly, i DID try tell him that i still love him but he did not listen..but i seriously did NOT BEG for him to court me.he studies at my former school and i'm in a different university. My bestfriends (both those studying at his school and at another university) have also heard about that rumor too.i have not confessed to them that i tried to get back together with him and he rejected me.would it be wrong if i got mad at my ex knowing that i also had my share of mistake?