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Well it turned out really well. i had a lot of fun and so did she. it had its somewhat awkward times...but hey, what can you do i guess huh? only one song made me feel like total * * * *(one of "our" songs) but all in all it was cool.
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oh yea....my prom is this friday and im going with her. she has constantly told me how excited she is. so we'll see how it turns ou!
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Thanks for the tips...ill try and avoid the word us from now on. i dont think that will be too bad for now since i have a feeling we wont have any conversation concerning our futures until the end of summer(that is if we even talk about it...) if it does come up ill go off of what you said about our hopes and dreams and all that jazz....with my own feelings and all placed in there of course
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ive got another question blender....did you see other people during that time(i assume you must have?) and how was that?
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Thanks a bunch blender! basically i want to do what your guy did...would you suggest sayin anything in particular to her? the last thing i said to her that seems similar to what your talking about was "you were right, everything is going to work out for us."
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Thank you! i need it lol
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yea its nice to have input from an outside from time to time. thanks! Brett
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ive just come the the conclusion college sucks haha. we'll see what happens...if i remember ill send you a pm or something periodically(if your interested...)
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I was kinda scared of that.... we actually have sorta touched on seeing whats up later on thats when she said that ill be in love with someone else to which i responded about her being someone i will always love and will always have a place in my heart. so i guess we'll see......
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The other girl turned out to be totally immature...among other things. Im pretty sure that i could find someone else i might love as much as her...but i dont really care about finding someone else right now...maybe im being narrow minded? Ive also changed a lot since me and her dated the first time, im really a different person. dated a number of girls before and after we first dated...i guess i see the fact that i saw all those other girls and still wanted to be with rachael(figured id say her name insted of "that girl" tells me that she is something special
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Ill admit to being scared to go into the unknown(college) however i honestly dont think having her would make it easier... now lets see...what i mean by that...the fact that we would be doing a long distance relationship would be awesome i think trying that would be harder than going single...if you see where im going with this?? I know shes "my cup of tea" (beware, cliffnotes version of what has happened with us) we actually dated right after our freshman year and i broke up with her, shortly thereafter i regretted my decision. she started going out with another guy(they dated almost 2 years). finally told her how i felt, they broke up shortly after, i sorta moved in and she said she wasnt ready...i backed off..found another girl, talked to her nothin really happened. she indicated she was now interested in me(this about...november of last year) i was torn between 2 girls (the new one who i didnt know much about and THE girl) screwed around trying to make up my mind, told THE girl i wanted to be friends...realized i totally screwed up AGAIN and told her. she didnt really trust me, bout a month later we started dating and had been until recently... and about going to the unknown...she is really strong and the fact she SAYS she wants to be single makes me think she wants to go out on her own...
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things started to change shortly before we talked about just being friends...things that would define us as a couple, kissing, holding hands, hangin out a lot, little things...got the impression she thought things were going where she wasnt ready for them to go or didnt want them to go...
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lol.....man....i guess we will see how the summer turns out and how we can do the "best friend" thing... interesting times you say....oh boy... another thing...i know she kinda freaked out cuz i was getting close to her family(working with her dad on cars, and then i ended up having lunch with her dad, bro, uncle and grandparents...) certain things she does/reactions she has makes me think she is scared of falling in love or caring about me so much before she has to leave for college. during one of our "discussions" about college when i told her i was willing to try a relationship in college she said something to the effect of "your feelings about me will change" and shes said things like "its ok though, by then youll be in love with someone else sadly, but youll be happy so it will all be good" in response to something happeneing after college...
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so are you suggesting she wants to let me go but cant quite do it...?
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Someone has actually suggested that im on the shelf for later.... as for her mentality...she was in a long relationship right before me and her started seeing each other...and i kinda got the impression he was a little controling, mainly towards her and me. Her ex didnt want us to hangout cuz he thought i liked her(and we had dated before) so the best thing i can come up with is that she doesnt wanna be tied down at all. and im pretty sure her brother had an influence by telling her she might want to be, or should be.
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nooo...we are gonna be about 2 and half to 3 hours apart... i understand that she wants to go to college single, shes had that idea for a while and i knew about it...im more trying to figure out why she is saying those things to me about marriage and everything bein ok...she still talks about seeing each other on our breaks since we obviously live in the same hometown. and has talked about after college a little...
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she admits to being confused and also being confusing(to me) and i basically know she doesnt quite know what she wants...and also that things would be totally different if this was a year ago(not worried about college)
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eh, i cant really argue with that...she did follow it by sayin everything was gonna be ok...although it was a text message...not sure if that makes it better or worse lol. the thing i hear most is the first two quotes....damn i dont know...
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hmmm darn...i was trying to justify it(3rd comment) and came up with college again. and i know thats a HUGE thing on her mind right now...
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hmmm...blender your awesome. heh heh thanks a lot. oh yea and im still interested in what the rest of yall have to say
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When a girl tells you things like... "i meant what i said when i told you your the kind of guy i want to marry" "everything is going to be ok between us" "i want to love you like you love me" background... im in love with this girl and we tried a relationship but she knows its gonna end for college so she wants to be best friends(before you say anything, yes we can do that and have been, for some reason things are never really awkward for me and her...)
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Thanks for the replys guys. So as of right now im just gonna go with what she wants, go to college single, if she changed her mind that would be great but im not gonna be holding out for it to happen. she does talk about how we will still see each other on breaks and stuff, and her college is on the way home from mine so i would be able to stop by and have lunch or something on my way home...so the next 5 months should hopefully be great and we'll see what happens after that. maybe after seeing what else is out there we will both feel different about each other which could be good......or bad...
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she knows how i feel, well at least she knows i love her....i mean i would marry her in a heartbeat....not right now but after college...she doesnt know that, i dont know what she would say if i told her that. i know her mom has told her not to let me get away since im the kind of guy you would want to marry...she did tell me that.
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even still, id rather spend the last 5 months we have together. probably getting my hopes up but i still want things to change, i dont see the use in trying to find someone else when college is coming, especially considering how i feel about her now... i am young but ive been through quite a bit and have a pretty good understanding of relationships, i know how i feel and what i want. one thing that bothers me are some adults or older people dont think young kids like myself can find someone they are truly in love with...im sure you know what i mean. and coollady im not saying your one of those people, please dont take offense to what i said...
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So im a senior in high school and have been dating this girl for about 4 months and previously dated her a while back. to make a long, complicated story short, im in love with her. she on the other hand doesnt quite feel the same way. i just know she likes me a lot. anyway, i know where im going to college and she is fairly she where she is going. we got into the discussion about college and a while back she said she would want to be single, so i was kinda hoping id change her mind. well it came up today and one of the things she said was, "i just think you'll regret it because your feelings will change when you leave." this was a response to me saying i wanted to try to stay together. i think she knows me better than to say that, im actually kinda shocked she would say that. part of our history is previously dating and breakin up and me caring about her for about 2 years while we were apart. ladies...why would you say something like that?