hi i really hope someone can help. i found a lump in my breast bout 3 month ago and it got bigger so i went to the docs and they did some test and i got the resaults back today and i have breast cancer. i don't know how to tell my family and friends i know that this is really gonna upset them. i don't want them to have to go though all the pain i want to protect them but i know i can't go through this on my own. how do i tell the people that i love something that i know is gonna hert them. i didn't tell them when i found the lump coz i thought that it would turn out to be nothing and i didn't wanna worrie them. but its not and now i'm really scared of what ill have to go through.