Reading your story gives a name to how i feel, my story is similar, where my husband has now left for another woman who treats him better, he left just after our baby was born. But i was getting all the verbal abuse whilst i was pregnant and it is worse now that he has left, and too this day it is still all my fault and he hasn't had an affair, which i now found out had been going on since long before our child was born... He too used to discuss all my faults with the other woman, and of course she agreed that i was wrong, in everything. I have been diagonsed with depression which has been with me for many years, and he still insistist it was my fault as i didn't try, and now tries to use my"psycotic illness" against me. I am finding it hard to let go and move on. For he used to push on me the morals and value of family and respect of others and many other issues and now he has done what his whole family disrespect., but it is still my fault as i have now manipulated his family against him as they don't approve of the affair and leaving his gourgeos baby after two months. Anyway your story makes me now no feel that i am the only person betrayed.
