Shinobie

I dont like socially communicating because nobody ever likes me because im too shy and dont talk much.And i get really really nervous around girls and keep thinking im ugly im ugly and i just clam up around girls.And get a bad feeling in my gut and i get depressed.Where as when im playing a video game i get that stuff off my mind and get a little bit happy.So its sort of my happy place.

Ya definitely dude although mine wasnt at school.There was this girl at my restaurant and she came in this one day every week on the day that i worked.She would always keep looking at me staring at me.And i too the same.I never talked to her because i was too shy.I couldnt get her off my mind for the longest time like i couldnt stop thinking about how attractive she was.She stopped showing up she shows up again later on when imma cook because it would be easier to start a conversation.Maybe ask them how their meal was ya ive had the same problem as you.

Ya maybe its a good sign or maybe just an accident of walking into you i dont know

thanx buddy for the inspiration

I dont really know by his body language.Its something hidden behind the way he acts that instigates it.I dont really knwo sorry

Well just think like this.U have at least had a relationship.Other losers like me havent had a relationship in our whole lives.We just sit and play video games locked up in our room alone think "at least im not that loser".

YA i think u should definitely end the relationship.That whole rape story sounds like utter and complete bs.I would not believe that woman for a second.I think the woman u married turned out to be a big time compulsive lier.

Yes dont use anorexia to resolve the issue it is very dangerous and unhealthy for you.Its nothing you should be using.

Lol dont worry man i havent gotten any action in 17 years soon to be 18.The only action i get around here is from playing world of warcraft and counter strike.

Ya i dont really know.I think when a girl likes you she will look over then look away really fast if she is a shy person as for guys too.Because that is what i do when i like a girl.

I stayed at my house alone playing world of warcraft on my senior prom night pathetic eh?

Ya i think u should just ask her out man.Go with some of the tips some of these guys gave u on how to ask her out.Personally i dont kno whow u should ask her but just find the best way possible

Glad to know you were feeling a little bit better.Just think at least u went to prom.I stayed in my room playing world of warcraft all alone on prom night .Hope u feel better and forget about these girls if they werent interested in you.Its best to move on!

Ya i have a video game addiction and its caled world of warcraft and counter strike play like all day and even go as late as 4 o clock in the morning sometimes .

Yes i would like to meet someone in real life but its just so hard.I dont even know where to begin to find someone in real life.

I dont believe in it its never worked for me

ya i never really notcied how many dating sites there were until lately.I Was thinking about trying one out when i turn 18 and buy my car with all the money ive saved up.Since i dont have any luck finding love in real life .

Ya i had the same horrible double date as you.I went with my friend and these 2 girls sort of preppy.I tried to talk to her and make converstion but she did not show any interest in me which is the same with u as on your date.Friends showed up and she started talking to them easily and look very interested sitting away from me.I had close to the same experience you had and we just both gotta forget it.Cause there should be girls interested in both of us later.Those girls were just a bad egg in the batch.Forget about her and move on and look to brighter days

Yes ive experienced this fear many times.This is why i havent got a gf ever is because this same fear overcomes me to not go up to a girl.But u gotta overcome this fear and go up to this girl and talk to her where as i gotta do the same.We both gotta do it for ourselves to not be so shy.Hope your able to do it and gl

Ya definitely do it away from her friends like metallica said.I hope everything goes well for you tell us what happened ^^.

Ya come on ogari u can do it man!U just gotta believe in yourself up to this girl and try to start a conversation.I know its hard im the same way its hard for me to go up to girls and talk to them.I mean i havent had the guts to do it yet myself.But u gotta do it before me and show us what ur made of.JUst tell urself im not a wimp!And go for it.I know u can do it

Ya u should definitely go for it.I mean what is there to lose except for being rejected but it seems like shes interested so i would definitely go for it.U'll regret it later if u dont.

i Would put some characteristics for how i want a women to be personality wise but i wouldnt really put physical characteristics.Cause u can just judge by the picture they give u if they have one.

So ur saying they get pretty stupid over certain things like height and even looks.Or do they go by the personsexplanation of what they want and how they see themselves.

I think u should go back in there and talk to her.Me and u are the same we dont get many chances to come by women since we are shy.U have a ur prey right there and i think u should take a bite at it and go for it .Maybe just try to tell her what happened and see how it goes.Its a chance u shouldnt let go cause i know i wouldnt so go for it mang!