Hi guys/girls... I am new to the forum but am hoping that someone will shed some light on my situation, so here is my problem.
I wouldn't call myself an drop dead gorgeous guy but I don't think I look horrible either and I know I am shy and somewhat unconfident, so all of this together, it is hard for me to express my feelings. About a year and a half ago, I met a girl and we started talking and became really good friends (and at the time thats all I wanted i to be, 'cause I wasn't ready for a relationship), and I know that the understands the way I feel about myself and I know that I can and will change. Anyway, we started spending alot of time together and doing things more often but then all of our friends started accusing her of using me (I am a nice guy and will do anything for a friend, but she will do anything for me also) and we stopped hanging out as much for a short wile to ease up the pressure and it worked. Now we have been doing just as many things together as before and the other day I basically told her... I enjoy hanging with you and wanted to ask you out on a date but since were are good friends I don't want to put you on the spot. So I told her I was gonna be somewhere at a certain time and if she wanted to carry our relatinship to the next level to show up and if she didn't I would forget the conversation (but i would now how she felt about me in that way) and we could just be good friends. To make a long story short, and it was long, she showed up and we had a chance to talk but I have a hard time understanding girls and I wanted to know... She told me that she was glad I asked her, but we have such a good friendship she didn't want that to be ruined. She said that it is easier to talk as friends and that thats what she wants to be for right now, but she said she was open to ideas in the future. So after all that, what do you all think. Is she just giving me a "classic" line or is she the girl I think she is and really cares about me and our friendship???
1. What should I do about this, should I just back off and give her some space or what???
2. To the girls out there, everytime I see her and we are together it seems like all we do is stare at each others eyes, is she trying to tell me something???
Thanks to all of you who take time to read this!
