deff808
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Day 9 NC So difficult, i can do it!
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I was on day 8 NC Had to break NC today, text via. I had to owe her money, deposited it in her bank account, short text. That was it... Glad i got that over with!
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My text texted three times last two days. I'm on day 7 NC or maybe 8 I ignored them all
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Okay i'm almost on day 6 NC But my ex has text me twice " You work today? " I ignored it 3 hrs later She text again " Just was wondering if the item has come in, I didn't hear anything." She has order a gift for me, one week later of our break up. Its about two weeks now since our break up, 2 days before valentines. I guess she promise she was gonna get it for me, while we was together i supposed. What do i do? I ignored that last message to. Would be kinda rude that she got me a expensive gift, and be brick about it not replying back. I haven't received it yet. But who cares, she left me... Or no?
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I hardly go on, i avoid FB as much as possible. Only thing i would probably do is delete my account for awhile. I remember i took her off when we first broke up, got back together, she never accepted me back like 2 months later on FB.
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I'm on day 5 NC Didn't delete her on fb, wondering if i should. She still has pictures of us together on her FB.
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I'm back to NC Im an idiot, text her last night Hi at 9pm, she texted back and hr later " Hi, sorry my phone died, we were at dinner, good night!" I ignored it Ughh... This is so diffcult
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I broke nc. She text me and ask for permission to call me. She promise me before she was gonna help me with my tax return on trubo tax and my investments on my 401k. She even fwd a email last night, that she promise before she was gonna purchase a gift for me. " Look out in the Mail " A receipt of what she has ordered. Since i helped her on my last LDR trip, last weekend. I did several favors for her, of what needed to be done. Car, help her moving etc... I didn't buy her anything! Its been about 6 days prior to our break up, maybe 3 out of those days NC. When she helped me out, was online and on the phone for short while. I never brought up any of the relationship, she just help me threw the paper work. Thats it. But i still can't believe she is still spoiling me with gifts... You have any idea?
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Thanks! She called me on Tuesday, from work. I ignored it, she just left a message, about work and her friends will be in town in the area, seeing if i could take them around. I didn't call her back about it.
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Short and sweet - im 26 she 24, 1 year dating, she just moved recently. LDR 2 months. Why, distance, job, future, not the right time, less stress... This was our 3rd break up, same reason. Finally dead end. I finally had to let her go and agree with the break up. This was on Saturday, two days before valentines. I'm on NC day 3, i been keeping myself busy with work and my hobbies. No fight, no argue. I just walked to the plane, saying by. What if you end it on good terms? What do you do? Friends? LC? NC?
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Post here instead of contacting your ex!
deff808 replied to Nynnja's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
Sometimes i think about you, each day at a time. Sometimes i forget about you. Eventually i'm healing and understanding why... What hunts me of what you said " Its not you, Its me! " It irritates my head, makes me more angry or confused n frustrated. And i looked at your fb profile, even though we're not friends. Seen a new picture... Ahhh! Why did i look at it! FOCUS! -
Day 4 She text me late tonight " HI " What the hell! You broke up with me!!! Remember you said " Its not you, Its me!" Obviously i wont reply, i would like to put her on panic mode.
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THE NO CONTACT CHALLENGE - SuperDave71
deff808 replied to SuperDave71's topic in Getting Back Together
What happeneds if i work with my ex? Been going out for 6 months. Broke up like a month ago. NC outside of work is about a week.... But i do bump into her outside of work, like grocery shopping. But keep the conversation minimum as possible.