Betsy Blue

Forget about her, you can do much better than her

That's brilliant advice NJRon

To be honest i don't really understand why you even want her number, what good is that going to do? You admit that you sent him horrible e-mail's but nevertheless it does seem like a weird thing to do to send those photos of him with another girl, but you didn't include in the post what you wrote in the nasty emails so i don't know how far it went or what was said so it isn't clear what made him feel the need to do send them ... if that makes sense? This is going to sound nasty and i feel bad saying it but im only being honest and trying to be objective you sound a little clingy (sorry!) for example "[i want him to] give me her phone number and the passwords to his email and put a gps on his car so that I knew where he is all the time", If you feel like you have to do that then i would say there is no trust in your relationship and it would be better to call it a day but if you really really feel like you have to do that, it's only going to work if you live together and can be together most of the time.

Ayman, I live in the UK and the age of consent laws over here are a little different from the ones in the US; 16 is the legal age for sex and pretty much everything apart from drinking, which is 18. I kinda wanted to know if anyone could tell me what they would do in my situation, how would you approach the subject without saying, "Oh, Babe, I forgot to tell you .. I'm a liar" Help !

That's what i'm scared of, i'm not a liar and when i think back i regret it so much, but if i had have told him my real age and he'd have said "sorry, you're too young" we wouldn't have the relationship and the happiness we do now, i want to tell him but i'm too scared that i'll lose him. What should i say to him, how should i do i tell him?

I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year, He means everything to me and i love him so much. I met him last year on my birthday, I told him that i was 18, when it was actually my 17th birthday, as he is 22 i didn't think he's want to go out with a 17 year old. I feel really bad about it, but before i met him, i'd never had a real relationship and i just thought that we'd last a few months at the most and then things would just fizzle out as it usually did with guys. I honestly don't think that it would be a big deal to him because it's not something we often talk about, and as i do look about 18 it's never stopped us going out for a drink etc, but over the past year, we have become really close and not just that but i have become close to his family and his friends, so now i feel like i'm lying to them too! i want to tell him because i'm sick of having it hanging over my head all the time, but i don't know how i should go about it, can anyone help ? Betsy Blue, UK