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  1. Been awhile since I've posted here. Noticed you stalked my fb page recently. Very surprised. Not sure why you did. I didn't think it would affect me but it did. It doesn't help that the guy I'm casually seeing is being super casual to the point I feel like I have no idea what is going on. I haven't thought of you much these days but seeing that you checked me out did stir some old feelings...
  2. I had a really nice date this weekend. Don't know where it's heading or anything but it was nice to have a good time on a date. Hope you are well and have found what you are looking for. Wouldn't want to be with someone always waiting for the other shoe to drop once that exciting prospect showed up for you. I guess it's true that everything happens for a reason.
  3. Mantra to self - if we were meant to be together we would be. Also need to remember how you said your lack of feelings wasn't something that was going to ever change.
  4. I had the worst date of my life last night. By now are you serious with someone? Why couldn't it be me? Feel like I'm a few steps forward and then 1 awful night and I'm missing you again...this sucks
  5. How do you deal with the fact that you will never see this person again and have zero contact? It just baffles me sometimes...the last time I saw him he had spent the night and then the next week MIA. I know it's for the best because why would I want to be with someone who could do that and also wasn't as into me as I thought they were. I was lead to believe this but then told that there weren't enough feelings...blah...blah...I just hope the next person I fall for is honest and not pretending to be into me
  6. Ugh, why did I just read your horoscope...so annoying that I did that. Of course, it says you may be thinking of a lost love and it encourages you to reach out... That will teach me. Another holiday weekend is upon us. The start of the summer was much worse for me, now I'm pretty ok for the most part. Haven't met anyone I really like for a romantic partner. A bit frustrating at times.
  7. I'm in NC and have stopped counting days (months now). Have no links to people or social media basically like we never knew each other and will never see each other again most likely. I guess I got curious about his ex and wanted to see what she looked like. I doubt he's back with her as she's moved on but always thought he was maybe a little bit hung up on her and compared all his next gfs to her. Maybe she is the one which he used for comparison of the excitement feeling he was missing. Ugh, didn't find much and ended my searching. I hate how easy it is to think of something and then look it up on google
  8. Ugh, I can't believe you are invading my dreams. It wasn't a good one either. We were still together and I showed up at your job unannounced (I would never do this)! Anyway, you received a phone call and I was able to pick up the phone and hear you talking with a co-worker you were seeing behind my back. You left suddenly to see her as she was threatening breaking up with you. Then I got talking with your co-worker who warmed up to me telling me all sorts of sorted stuff about your past. So odd and seemed like it was really happening. No idea why I would dream all this...
  9. I hate that I still sometimes have the thought that you are going to come back and say what a huge mistake you made, how you want to start over with me. Luckily, this is happening less and less with time. Of course my mind still thinks what if you tried to reach me when I was gone but I have to remember if you wanted me back you would try repeatedly to get in touch with me. I've stopped counting days now and trying to live my life but still thoughts of you pop up
  10. NC + time...doing everything I'm supposed to do to get over him but still not
  11. So glad I have no idea what you are doing and who you may be with now...but I still wonder. Hope these lingering feelings fade away. Still have the nagging thought that you tried to reach me when my phone wasn't working but I am reminded by posts here everyday that if someone really wants you back they will find a way to let you know...
  12. So I ended things with this guy I was seeing. He was not very nice about it. Found out he was only interested in me physically. At least I found out early on. Makes me miss you more. Days too long to count anymore. Wish you hadn't changed your mind about us. Still don't understand what happened. I wonder if you are serious with someone by now. Hurts to think about so I don't for the most part. Living life and hoping to find someone special. I've given up hope of you returning.
  13. Almost a month of NC next week. No plans to ever reach out. He's made it clear he doesn't want me back. Trying my best to move on but sometimes it's harder to think he wasn't right for me or we would be together, etc..........Not to indifference yet but I'm thinking that's the goal of NC/getting over someone.......
  14. Doing my best to move on. Zero contact or info regarding ex. Got rid of all reminders of him. Then Sat. I go to my usual pre-gym spot for breakfast and a guy looking just like him sits across from me smiles and says good morning. Really, really weird. Luckily I had finished eating but had to leave. Not sure why this would happen when I am moving on
  15. Just over 3.5 weeks of NC...no way I'm breaking it now. Thinking of tossing some stuff of mine which reminds me of him. Thankfully no social media connection so I have no idea what he is doing or who he is with now. I do wonder if he tried to contact me when I was out of town but very, very doubtful. Always think about the 1% chance that he did but that's not reality.
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