ilovecats
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Batya33,I am not on here to brag at all.If u r going to say things like that,then don't even post on my thread b/c I don't care what u have to say.I obviously feel some sort of guilt b/c I'm trying to talk about this and get some idea as to why I'm doing such an awful thing to a great person.
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When you read this,you are going to think I'm the worst person in the world.Okay,here's my story. I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 4 yrs.I care about him a lot but I do not love him.I never have but he thinks I do.He even thinks that we are going to get married someday.But what's worse than that is that I have been cheating on him for almost a year now.Not with one guy.I have cheated on him with three other guys.And I have had a just sex relationship with the last guy for about four months now.We work together,too.I don't know what's wrong with me.I feel awful.But obviously I don't feel too bad b/c I'm still cheating on him.I've broken up with my b/f two times.But each time I missed him so much,that I went back.I don't love him and I definitely don't want to marry him.So what the hell am I doing?](*,) I don't really know why I'm writing this.I guess I just wanted to get this off my chest.I'm an evil person.He loves me so much,too.He does everything for me.And how do I repay him?By sleeping with other men.Yeah,I'm such a great girlfriend.I don't know what else to say.
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Yes,I am definitely using protection.Maybe I just need to be stronger.I don't know.Just forget about having feelings for him and just have sex.What do you guys think?
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Afonseleca,you said that you are also in a casual relationship?How do you keep your feelings detached from this person?How long have you had this casual relationship?
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I guess what I am so conflicted about is that I really don't want to stop having sex with him.That's why I think that it may be just lust that I am feeling.I mean,this is the best sex I have ever had.It's just that good. But it would suck if he got involved with someone else just because I would definitely have to stop talking to him.Unless he just wanted to have me on the side. I'm just joking!I'm trying not to be in such a grumpy mood.
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No,afonselaca.I'm saying,should I just continue having sex with him and just forget about something coming out of it?We do have great sex!Maybe I should just leave it the way it is.I don't know.
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I am so confused right now.I really,really don't want to cut things off with him.Do you guys really think that would be for the best?Maybe what I am feeling for him is just lust.Maybe?Why can't I just have sex with him and that be it?Is there a way I could do that?All I know is that I really don't want to completely cut things off with him.I can't help it!I don't know what to do!
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Okay,I am so confused right now.I don't know if I should break things off with him or just detach my feelings for him and keep the just sex thing going.He is sending me so many mixed signals.Some people are saying that he may actually want something more with me,but just doesn't want to rush into things.Because when I brought all this up a few days ago,he said,"People have something good going and then they want to try and rush things."I told him that I wasn't trying to rush anything.I just wanted to know where we stood.If this was going anywhere.I don't know what he wants.I'm so confused.Do you think that he may want something but just wants to take things slow?I don't know.Why did he call me to wish me a Merry Christmas?It was weird.He didn't say anything about what happened and neither did I.Should I?What should I say?Or should I just forget about having feelings for him and just have the fwb relationship?Sorry about all the stupid questions.I'm just so confused right now.:sad:
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OMG!He called me just a few minutes ago!Which was completely unexpected.But I'm so glad he did!Him calling me put me in such a better mood.He called me to say Merry Christmas and we talked a little.I didn't say anything about what happened the other night and neither did he.I really don't feel like getting into it.If he wants a just sex relationship,I think I can detach my feelings for him.Because now I know that he probably doesn't want a relationship.I should just accept it,right?I mean,I'm only 22.I'm still young.I have plenty of time to find "the one."I should just have fun.I know I sound completely immature right now.Sorry.Anyway,if anyone has anything else to say,feel free.
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And Hope75,you said you finished nursing school on December 13? That's when my beautiful nephew was born!!!
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As hard as it is going to be,I think it would be best to completely stop talking to him.And trust me,it's going to be hard.I've already cried at the thought of never talking to him again.I already miss him.:sad: But I'm going to try not to call him.I know that I'm going to want to really bad.All in due time.Thanks for everyone's advice!If there's more anyone wants to tell me,please feel free.
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so do you think i should call him?what should i say?when should i even call him?
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if it's just sex he wants,then i'm fine with that.i just don't want to stop talking to him.i just wanted to know how he felt.but i guess he doesn't want me to know.
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so what do u think i should do as of right now?call him?let him call me?What?
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So what should I do now?Never bring it up again?Do you think he's going to want to stop talking to me now?Sorry about all the questions but I really don't want things to end between just b/c I told him how I felt.