Hi Mustachio,
I'm sorry, but I'm not completely familiar with your story, but have you asked your ex to not contact you? I had asked my ex to not contact me unless she wants to reconcile and she keeps texting/IMing me about once a week. Kinda makes my NC a bit difficult as I find it difficult to ignore her. How exactly do you with it when she does contact you? I just don't know whether I should ignore her or if I should be civil or friendly or what not.
Thanks.