pix6dix

I agree 100% with Swingfox. If you two were still friends and stayed in contact, it's okay to contact him. If you two haven't stayed in contact and he's moved on, leave him alone, birthday or not. There's nothing worse than an old flame interfering with your life even though they think they're just "being polite..."

Dude, Get a clue...Have you EVER, EVER heard of ex's getting back together and STAYING together??? There's a reason you two broke up in the first place and that's not gonna change because you're suddenly hot for her again. Even Elizabeth Taylor remarried Richard Burton and it STILL didn't work out...And they're rich...So what makes you so different that you think YOU and your ex can make it work?? It never does...you need to get a clue...Although you've already received one when you two broke up in the first place. But of course, I'm sure you'll say it was just a "misunderstanding" or "confusion" or some other lame excuse because you don't want to accept the truth of why you broke up in the first place...