Love SUCKS!

[crazychicrs]

Here's the story! There's this guy that I've known for a year, he's really nice, smart and hot! Over the summer we kinda grew apart but were still good friends! But every time he talks about a relasionship I back down like I dont like him but I really do!!!! I need help! I think I'm afriad of what will hapeen but I dunno... he hasn't said anything about it lately, maybe I should break the ice? I need advice! Please reply! ~*~crazychicrs~*~

[Anamarie89]

there are guys on this site posting about how they asked someone that was their friend out and they said no, and you are saying that you denied it and are mad! this is probly what is happening with you! so put yourself in his shoes... what is he feeling? he would LOVE it if you asked him about it!

[Finzsoftie]

You have to think of it in the long run, you might get hurt but then you can say tha tyou learnt and it will make you a "better person"

 

Just go up to him and tell him the truth, that you like him and that you want to be with him but you are scared of committment.

 

And this quote is something that I live by:

 

"Love is passion, obsession, someone you can't live without. If you don't start with that, what are you going to end up with? Fall head over heels. I say find someone you can love like crazy and who'll love you the same way back. And how do you find him? Forget your head and listen to your heart. I'm not hearing any heart. Run the risk, if you get hurt, you'll come back. Because, the truth is there is no sense living your life without this. To make the journey and not fall deeply in love - well, you haven't lived a life at all. You have to try. Because if you haven't tried, you haven't lived"

 

I hope this helps, you can PM me if you want!

[HAMLETTHUNKTOOMUCH]

If you want to do the relationship thing than go for it. I personally have been through like 5 long term ones and I can explain the trade off for you:

 

intense feelings, both good and bad, consistant sex, in exchange for extreme trauma after the breakup.

 

It's up to you but be aware of what you're getting yourself into. I personally think very casual dating is the way to go.