I AM SOOO CONFUSED!!!

[babygurl07]

Please help me!! Ok there is this guy.....Well me and him I guess you could call us friends with benifits...cuz we hold hands n stuff...but see he WAS enaged and he is planning to fully break up with her soon....but I have been told 3 times that if we go out he will cheat on me..but some ppl think that I should give him a chance cuz everyone deserves a chance ya know?....but I have also been played and used and cheated on to many times! And I have told him many times about that and he said he knows how I feel with that....But I dunno what I need to do....so thats why I am trying to get as much honest advice I can get!! And also there is this guy his name is Justin....I kinda like him but I dont exactly know him all that well but we talk n all....and then there is Alex...and 2 of my friends thinks he likes me but both of those friends like him! And he flirts with me a lot and he thinks the other 2 are "kool" and I no for a fact he doesnt like one of em like that just a friend.....but I am soo confused right now!! So PLEASE!!! Help me!!

[HAMLETTHUNKTOOMUCH]

FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS MEANS THAT YOU HAVE SEX WITH HIM, FIRST OF ALL, NOT HOLDING HANDS. THAT'S GAY.

 

SECONDLY, EVEN THOUGH HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU, IT DOESN'T MATTER CAUSE YOU WILL NEVER KNOW ABOUT IT. SO DON'T WORRY.

[babygurl07]

oh ok thanx for correcting me and ya it would kinda matter if he was cheating on me cuz that could really hurt sum1.....i've been hurt from bein played before! And the whole point of going out is that you are basically saying that you are WITH each other not with 1 person and dating 10 other ppl

[scorch_yogo]

baby gurl this is for you,

if you really want to have a date him, go for it. just dont make any commitment with him coz you know already that he will cheat after all. just give yourself a try. both of you might have the chance to discover that you are for each other. but thats a vwery slim chance. just for the sake of enjoyment go for it. you are the master of yourself. and when you do that just take some safety precaution to yourself. no comitments at all. you know already what kind of guy he is. so dont give him that chance to cheat on you.

When God gives you one important thing in your life, never embrace it too tight so when he wants it back, it wont be hard for you to let go.

if cheats on you later, you will be the one to suffer if in case. so dont hold unto him. have a date with him and learn. just remember he is a cheater. dont let him get you....

enjoy your date...take care

[babygurl07]

Thanx! I might give him a chance....but I am still thinking about it.....I still have a week or so till he figures out what he wants to do and figure out if he is gonna break up with this chic or work it out. So ya thanx!! And if anyone else still has any advice I would love to hear your oppinion on what you think I should do!