couture Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 I'm so confused my ex broke it off because things were getting to serious before i move away later this month. He chased me and first said he loved me and couldn't believe that i was going out with him e.t.c. the last time i saw him he met my parents and the last thing he said to me was 'love you i'm missing u already' 4 days later he broke up with me over SMS. I was devastated realising i actually love him so much and it hurts not being with him. I avoided him for a month or so but bumped into him in a club he ignored me when i confronted him he said he was scared of seeing me. I said i wanted to be friends or at least civil. The next time i saw him he was with another girl who was sitting on his lap e.t.c. it felt like a kick in the stomach but i saw him again later without the girl and he attracted my attention by pinching my bum and trying to hug me. He wanted to meet up but it never happened because my messages blocked my phone. I then saw him last thursday and again he kept touching me as he walked past in the club, and i was sitting down by some stairs and he would walk past my table 3 or 4 times up to the bar but would return with nothing as if he was doing it for the hell of it. So i sent him a SMS and jokingly how he owed me money! Usually he never replied to my SMS or if so it was blunt. Instead he replied with 'sometime soon gorgeous x' which really confused me because he always addressed me as gorgeous and follow his message with a x I sent back a message asking if he had a good night he never replied is he using me hoping i'll still hang around 'waiting for him' or does he have any feelings for me? Link to comment
kuja_13 Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 I think that he's one confused guy on what he wants.... Link to comment
marcusoteroman Posted September 8, 2003 Share Posted September 8, 2003 Darn this guy has some weird @$$ probablems... Well anyway, it sounds like to me he trying to mess with your head. He ignores you but still acts like hes attracted to you, he wants you to think about him like this because he probably wants to confuse you, but I don't know for sure. You should try ignoring him for awhile and see what he dose. If he still acts the way he is now then you should to talk to him and ask to get back together. If he still ignores you then just move on. I hope that helps. Link to comment
couture Posted September 9, 2003 Author Share Posted September 9, 2003 Well i'm leaving in a couple of weeks and i don't want to leave thinking i'm making a mistake by not letting him know how i feel. So is it worth just telling him i love him? Because he must feel something or he wouldn't mess with me in this way? Link to comment
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