iz it meant 2b? or..juz to make it clear?

[KnowinMaSelf]

Hi...i would like to ask you guyz some questions...well...I'll try to make it short, I have fallin in luv with someone, and that i waz too young to fall in love. I waz 10 0r 11 wen i had feelings. I liked him 4 his personality, and that he never heard of me, or neither do he knows me. 4 short, lets just say his like a dj. I wanted to thank him 4 something but i never got the chance to do it. It's quite complicated, but anyways, i got over it cuz i tried to call him one day, but i didn't get thru, i didn't call again cuz that was it. I realise that it wasn't meant 4 me to talk 2 him. Years gone by and i've got the strength to carry on. One day i heard on the radio that he was going to leave, he told the listeners to call or write him something like a request a song for his last day..cuz he might play them on the radio. Well..i wrote him how i felt and all that, just to let my 11 year old wish to come true. I have no more feelings for him and that i really did carry on..but sumhow..i'm just this person who lets some1 know how i feel atlease before i can really let go. One day he wrote back to me..i wanted to let go and say goodbye..but it was too late cuz..the part of me was back.

and now..the question is.. ..is it meant to b? to feel that way again? or..is it just that his just back to my heart to let me know something...b4 i really let him go.? to face who he really is...and understand it all..and that i can really move on. Or..is jus tat..it's just meant to be to feel that way again? i don't know..but..please explain it all to me..if i was crazy to fall in love in such an young age...or that his just the person who i know i can feel great with? hmm..please tell me..i can accept the bad sides that are on your minds...thanks 4 reading.

[mensrea]

Firstly, I don't believe that you can fall in love with someone at the age of ten or eleven. You can develop a crush, certainly, but that's about it. It sounds as if your 'crush' has just been awakened, that's all. It isn't love, as you don't even know each other and it doesn't sound as if it was something that was 'meant to be', either. However, I'm sure there is one nice guy out there with whom it is meant to be. Good luck in finding him!

[-Shy-]

I fell in love at age 12 almost 13, we're still in love now at age 14.5 =)

[KnowinMaSelf]

I wanna thank you guys!! sooooo much!!! Mensrea..i think you are right! And somehow it seems like it's not meant to be. Sigh..Really happy for that. Well..I am not really looking forward to find any guy that is meant for me, but i'm just finding out if the crush thing about him is true...that's all. Bout..my 'crush' thing is awakened? i dont quite get that part..but..thanks again!

Hi Shy...thanks for replyin back! Well..that's nice to hear that you fell in love with someone...but...somehow..for me..his very old. Bout...11 or 12 years older than me. Well..i think you guys are meant to be. Since you still in love with him! Well..thank you guys!

[mensrea]

As far as a crush being awakened is concerned... well, I've had crushes on guys, then put them to one side, then I see them again and it's like... 'Hello.' If that makes any sense at all, which I fear it doesn't!

[KnowinMaSelf]

i get you..hahah..well..thanks agen!! well..i just wanted to ask that cuz..i waz onleh wondering if it counted...THANKS!!!!!

[Gaeltick]

Lets see, you requested the dj play a song on his last day. You wrote a letter expressing how much his radio personality meant to you, and he wrote back. HELLO!!!!!! All he had to do was play your song, but he wrote you back. Me thinks, you touched this man and he was attempting to maybe see where it would lead. Write him back, who knows where it might lead.

 

Personally older men are quite attractive. I say go for it, his writing you back was a green light.