..uhhhhhh! lol!

[DjSystemz]

I asked this beautiful girl to hang out with me one Saturday. Then she made an excuse. Asked her to hang out again. Made another excuse. Then a message that pretty much said "I'm so sorry, please give me time before we go out. I'm undecided if I want to go out with you, just give me time, not sure if I'm ready for a boyfriend."

 

This is kind of funny because I haven't asked her out on a date and I haven't asked her for a relationship what so ever. I wanted to hang out with this girl to see what her personality is and to get to know her better just as a friend. Not to start something on the spot! So now my question is, what does this really mean? What should I do? Keep talking to her? Giver her "time"? Forget about her? And why would she automatically think that I would want to date her? I haven't thrown her any signs of any sort. I'm sure some guy has dealt with this. I'm confused beyond belief! Why are girls so difficult? lol!

[sweetheart21]

I wanted to hang out with this girl to see what her personality is and to get to know her better.

Thats what a date is

She doesnt sound that interested. Maybe she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. You should find someone that gets really excited about being asked to hang out with you