y wont he ask me out?is it me..is he scared?what should i do

[RiotGrl27]

Ok for the last month and a half ive had this thing going on with this guy named Jake i like him so much... he knows that i do, but i dunno if he knows that i want a relationship. i want to tell him but i dont want to scare him cuz like i said i like him so much and i dont want to ruin what i do have with him...im afraid that if i might then thats what'll happen. how do i tell him without possibly scaring him PLEASE HELP ME!!!

[segagirl]

Hello,

 

I am not sure if there is a way to "not scare him" I think simply asking him to do more "date" like things may give him the hint without you coming out a saying you like him.

 

BUT....I think, if you really like someone, the risk sets you up for greater reward. If you never say anything at all, you may get nothing. Sometimes you just have to go for it.

 

Best of luck to you!

[iamlearning]

Go for it..