What is this all about?

[lonelymantonight]

I had to delete this one

[Julie8580]

Sounds to me like she's not "over" the relationship. I think her behavior is pretty normal, and typical of someone who still thinks about you a lot. She may be depressed but the best thing you can do at this point is continue to be honest with her, and try to keep out of contact. Don't lie about seeing other people to spare her feelings, it will be easier for her to move on if she knows the truth.

[sillygurl]

Sounds like she's not over you at all, why did you even break up?

[lonelymantonight]

The same reason everyone else on here broke up. I wasn't feeling appreciated, she was tied of trying when I supposedly was not trying. I think that boredom and the routine of life played a part in the break up.

[danman4968]

amazing...i dont think thats why EVERYONE breaks up...but that is EXACTLY why she left me.

 

As for the girl putting on weight and partying...exactly what my ex has done...id like to know myself if our breakup has played a part in that...or if she felt i was holding her back.

[lonelymantonight]

DanMan, Did the initial break up seem hard on your ex? Mine seemed to have a really hard time with the break up and of course kept breaking NC. I have been NC for like 3.5 months now. She has not contacted me either.

[wonderfulconfusion]

Do you guys think that the fact that an ex stays jealous about us that there are still feelings?