Advice seeked!

[ToxiC SweateR]

First, thanks to everyone who helps me out! You guys are the greatest.

 

Anyways, this all started last night, when my female friend asked me if I could give her a ride home tomorrow from school. "Sure, no problem," I said. Well, today I got to school and everything started out alright. But, by the end of the day, I told my girlfriend I'd give her a ride home, too. She was okay with that part, but when I told her that I would take my other friend home, she completely flipped on me. She accused me of liking her MORE than a friend, and no matter how much I assured her, promised her that I didn't, she wouldn't buy it. She says that if she was single, i'd be all over her.

 

However, if you haven't guessed it, this isn't true at all. Fact is, I don't really even like her (that much) as a friend, muchless a sexual friend!](*,)](*,)

 

My question is this: I've tried to talk to her, now what? Do I just stand back and let this one blow over? Do I keep trying to talk to her?

 

Thanks,

Andy

[SeaBisquit]

i would stay away from her. she's the one that is liking you. she is trying to find out if you like her back.

[ToxiC SweateR]

i would stay away from her. she's the one that is liking you. she is trying to find out if you like her back.

 

I don't understand...

Stay away from who? Who likes me?

If you're talking about the female friend that likes me, I know she doesn't.

[SeaBisquit]

how do you know for sure? it sounds like she is playing a game to me. that's just my thought on this.

[ToxiC SweateR]

I just know. And plus, even if she does like me, it's not mutual.

[Mun]

Can your friend get another ride?

 

Is your gf always this jealous? or is this just related to this one girl ?

 

thanks

[SeaBisquit]

sorry i read your post wrong at first. but i do think this other girl does like you. and i don't blame your gf for being jealous. anytime your gf isn't ok with something you do talk about it first. meaning she didn't like you giving the other girl a ride home so then it's simple.... don't give the othe girl a ride home. you made your gf feel bad, dude.

[ToxiC SweateR]

Thanks, I sure needed another relapse of the guilt train.

 

I've acknowledged the fact that I made her feel bad, and in the end I didn't even give my other friend the ride home! I told her I couldn't, because I was trying to make my girlfriend happy!

[Mun]

You did well. Just becareful your gf does not do this too often. It would be awful to be in a relationship with someone insecure.

[SeaBisquit]

toxic sweater

i think your gf is probably more mad with the other girl then she is with you. when ever stuff like this happens try to put yourself in your gf"s place. like, how would you feel if your gf had given a guy a ride home?

[ToxiC SweateR]

See, the thing also is, today she told me that she HATED her guts...which was news to me obviously!

[SeaBisquit]

ok, you just need to talk to your gf more, about what she likes and doesn't like. but don't give up things that you like for gf.

[ToxiC SweateR]

She just told me now she wants a little break to cool off...is it a good idea?

[Luck of the Irish]

Sounds like this goes deeper than you giving someone a lift. Does it strike you as odd that she wants to take a break from a little insecurity of you giving a friend a ride? Or is there more?

[ToxiC SweateR]

Well, I do find it odd. But she is still pretty upset from just the thoughts that I have feelings for someone else.