help.. please

[hilf mir]

okay, lets say.. i'm not the coolest 8th grader and there is this real beautiful girl.. but she is popular. i was wondering if you guys could help me and give me some tips for being, "cool", and helping me get the girl

[New_Horizons]

If she is attracted to 'cool' guys, she is not worth your time.

[hilf mir]

thanks guys.

[southerngirl]

Be yourself. You want a girl that will want you for who you are. You shouldnt have to pretend to be anything that you are not.

 

The coolest people are themselves with no faking.

[New_Horizons]

13, I think.

[southerngirl]

13-14 I think. I turned 14 in the 8th grade.

[hilf mir]

i m 13.. turning 14 in march..

 

 

just so ya know

[southerngirl]

Id rather be hated for who I am than Loved for who Im not -

 

Basically, if you are yourself you will find someone worthy of you.

[Allie.]

cliche but true--be yourself.

 

"Do what you want and say what you feel because the ppl that matter won't mind and the people that mind don't matter."

 

But if she doesn't show much interest, just know that there's been psychological surveys that show that women don't start choosing the right mates till they are well beyond college years [=