my first time - helpful advice needed

[celticghirl]

me and jack have not been dating long. however i feel soo comfortable and safe with him. i am lucky to have him. i am a virgin but he is experienced.

 

i want to have sex with him and we have talked about it but i am nervous as to how to go about it he says its a turn on when a girl takes the lead.

 

i am not shy when it comes to foreplay. sometimes i initiate it. we have made out naked and have done foreplay like that but we have never had sex and i am nervous about it all.

 

he has gone down on me a lot and i have given him blowjobs but when it comes to intercourse i just need some helpful advice about it. any advice will do to help me in my first time. i am asking because i know that is not far off for us in our relationship and i dont want to look like an idiot.

 

any comments welcome.

 

leah

[monkey1]

Surf this forum and you'll find TONS of tips and information on how to ease into sex, especially as a first timer

 

Good luck!

[PRSOV]

My tip is to talk about it together as a couple out of the bedroom first so you can figure out how you both feel etc. Rather than making any decisions based on hormones in the bedroom. I think you will feel a lot more comfortable when it happens this way too.