Am i doin sumthin wrong??

[mdog]

ok, i've been trying to call/send text messages/messages on myspace to my friends from school saying if they wanted to hang out. But for some reason when i call them i will not get no one or i will get like a family member of theirs and they will say "oh i will have him call u back" and like i dont get a call not even like a week later. So when my "friend" doesnt call me i feel like he doesnt care bout our friendship. And sending them messages they dont respond or they do and they say u know, we should do it another time but mostly i dont get an answer. I guess i would rather have them tell me the blunt truth saying I dont want to hang out wit u...instead of them just leavin me hangin b/c now i dont know if they want to hang out and i feel like if i keep askin they definitely dont want to hang out. im so confused

 

There is also this girl i kind of have feelings for from school and we were going to hang out the other day but she ditched me and i was at the movie theater by myself and i was pissed and i got home went on aim and she was at home and she kept askin me where my friends myspace from school was. and i lied to her sayin "i forgot" and i asked "y do u even care?" and she was like oh my friend (who she hated b/c they got in a fight) wanted to know what he look like. I was like so u ditched me for her? and i got mad and she was like "Im so sorry ur right i should have went to the movies. and all all this other BS. Im still mad at her

 

And im meetin new people at work but i dont want to be going into a friendship or relationship with any of these people and all they want to do is talk at work and not hang out at all. i dont know what to do? How do i get over this? I dont want to get hurt again, but i know im going to get hurt by anyone. I feel like like i dont belong in this world and my "friends" Probaly dont even care.

[sumguy]

It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong, it just sounds like you have crummy friends =/

 

How old are you, if you don't mind me asking?

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

Yes it sounds like you want real life friends, whereas the people you've been talking to on myspace are just looking for imaginary online friendships. I think you are pretty healthy for recognizing the difference and preferring the real thing. Don't get down on yourself. Just put more effort into friends like people from work. Good luck.

[mdog]

oh im 15....yea i would say i dont make the bestest of friends, but i always become friends with the bad kids for some reason.

[iamteddybearfeelmecuddle]

oh im 15....yea i would say i dont make the bestest of friends, but i always become friends with the bad kids for some reason.

 

Don't hang out with the bad kids. The bad kids are more readily accessible, but the good kids will make better friends in the long run.