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[ruzintrn]

I am new on this forum, but I'd like to hear your opinion.

My bf went berserk when he found me looking at sexy naked boy on the Internet.

The boy in the picture was slightly younger that me, but still, is that such a big deal?

[Jax]

I am new on this forum, but I'd like to hear your opinion.

My bf went berserk when he found me looking at sexy naked boy on the Internet.

The boy in the picture was slightly younger that me, but still, is that such a big deal?

 

Is it porn, or a webcam? If it's a webcam then he has a right to react like that. If it's porn then I guess you two should talk about it to see whether or not you want that in your relationship. It's kinda weird though how your situation is the opposite of the norm. Usually the guy is the one watching porn and the girl is the one getting angry about it.

[ruzintrn]

It was porn, not webcam.

But why is that different?

[Jax]

It was porn, not webcam.

But why is that different?

 

Well I consider using a webcam, or having someone else show themselves to you naked on webcam is like cheating.

[Bethany]

How old are you?

[ruzintrn]

I'm 30, why?

[Bethany]

Cos you said boy. I wondered if you were really young or not.

 

Although I look at porn myself, I wouldn't blatantly flaunt it infront of my partner. It's a private thing that people do alone, unless the joint decision is made to look together, of course.

 

He's probably hurt and shocked that you feel the need even though he has probably done it himself. Think of how you would feel in his position. I think it would be disrespectful to look while he is around knowing he doesn't like it and would choose my time more carefully if I were you.

 

Spending a little time reassuring him that it means nothing to you, and that you still love him and care for him wouldn't go amiss here.

[7CardStud]

Some people are very senstive and see porn as not moral...

 

Talk to him and ask him what his feelings are about porn.

 

I know I would be hurt just the same... But thats because I dont watch porn and I wouldn't like my partner watching it either...