question for ladies

[trucker119]

i have been more open lately and being able to ask for numbers etc.... why do women give me a fake number or tell me they will call but never do? Why cant they just tell me no to start?

[Sylph]

Because it's easier to give a fake number than to create a confrontation by saying no - is the short answer.

[wild1]

It is a way of saying they are really that interested in you and they don't want to hurt your feelings.

[Scotcha]

Sometimes a guy won't back off unless you do.

[Sparkles16]

By giving out a fake number, they are avoiding letting you know they aren't interested directly. Girls typically don't like confrontation.

[sir sirloin]

1. women being direct is sort of like nailing jello to a wall...it aint gonna happen

2. you aren't reading the women well enough and are just shotgun formula flirting hoping something sticks

3. women are much better at reading men than the other way around and can clearly see this

4. the fact that you do this instantly makes you sort of creepy in their eyes thus the need to have an exit strategy rather than direct confrontation

[Hidden Royalty]

Giving out fake numbers is a proof of immaturity, I believe.

[angela1234]

women get asked for the number all the time and i guess they r sick of it especially if they have had a bad experience and they r also scared...they re so many freaks out there

 

if u really like a girl ask her where she hangs out and when she goes and try bumping into her again

[Aporia]

I've been asked my number by guys that I'm not intrested in. I rarely say ''no'' because I can't bring myself to do it especially in some cases when there was other people around. Giving fake number is pretty childish really. I'd just text him and say I'll be too busy or something like that.

 

Shouldn't the guy get the hint that the girl was unintrested in the first place?

 

As it was already said

 

The girl is either unintrested/ has a boyfriend

or

She gave the wrong number to you by a mistake

 

Think of the reasons why you would give a fake number to someone.

[neva_black_n_white]

chuckles... ive got a girly who did thats ... twas funny tho (no offense to you... because im sure he knew it was wrong) since he asked and she was like yes... its 12 34 56 789 chuckles...

 

its just because women arent aiming to knock you down at night but maybe theyre into someone else. i guess its simpler.

[Tigris]

Possibly because they don't want to hurt your feelings by saying no.