ArmyGirl69 Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 Okay there's this cute guy in my school and I noticed he looks at me everythime he passes by me... Like last year i wasn't interested in the guy and he looked at me when I was near, at first I thought I was imaginating things but then even my friend noticed. Now this year, still the same, and like his friends look at me too like all the time they see me! But now weirdly im kinda interested in him... I dont know how the hell i got interested in him when before i dint care much about him?... Once i was at my locker with some friends and when they saw me they came near and the guy in question was kind of yelling and trying to get attention... and other little stuff... I never talked to the guy. Am I wasting my time wondering!? Is he interested or not...? Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted April 18, 2006 Share Posted April 18, 2006 He is prolly interested but shy. Why don't you talk to him? Link to comment
ArmyGirl69 Posted April 18, 2006 Author Share Posted April 18, 2006 Because im shy of talking to him... argh! and like maybe he isnt interested... Link to comment
ksk0_0 Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 You're never ganna find out if you don't do anything You ARE interested aren't you? Link to comment
CtinaDitty Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 You need to go talk to him. Just start a casual conversation. You can't go wrong with that. You never know, he or you might just accidentally let it slip, or decide to hang out! You definitely need to go talk to him though.! Good Luck!!! Link to comment
ArmyGirl69 Posted April 19, 2006 Author Share Posted April 19, 2006 Thanks guyz! Ill try n go talk to him Link to comment
AwdreeHpburn Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 maybe you could try the passive approach if you're not entirely comfortable walking up to someone you're not sure likes you and talking to them. Maybe you could get his e-mail address and send him a note. Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted April 19, 2006 Share Posted April 19, 2006 Armygirl, are you actually in an Army school? if so, then you probably know why i'm asking... Link to comment
slash Posted April 20, 2006 Share Posted April 20, 2006 well Amy if hes like me.... he might not have the confidence to come up and talk to you, I think this is the downfall of many mens 'secret crushes' i geuss you can call it, maybe try to find out something you have in common, maybe you have the same class as him Link to comment
ArmyGirl69 Posted April 22, 2006 Author Share Posted April 22, 2006 Nope i AINT in an army school, lol, im a perfeclty normal ''hot'' gial lol. Sadly he isnt in any of my classes, hes in sec. 3 n im in 2,((but suposed to be in 3 though, -.- oh well...))... Argh, maybe im imaginating things but no... cant be imaginating... he DOES look at me alot...but i dont have the nerves to go up to him and talk Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 lol i didn't mean that! there are just strict rules against soldiers dating each other. Link to comment
ocrob Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 I am starting to see a trend that is quite interesting. It seems the women that would not normally be intersted in a guy get interested when the guy looks at them and does not make a move. Let's put the egos away and determine if you are interested in this guy. Just because he looks at you and does not talk to you, it seems to hurt your ego. If he were to talk to you would you talk to him and date him? I hope the answer is yes. If you like the guy, then talk to him in a very general sense and just get to know him over time. If he feels you are approachable, then he will ask you out. If it does not happen and you want it to, then mention that you would love to do something, but have noone to do with with. If he does not bite, then just ask if he would like to hang out some time. That is very general and does not say anything. Link to comment
ArmyGirl69 Posted April 22, 2006 Author Share Posted April 22, 2006 Yeh, but i dont now how to go talk to him. like when? where? what to say? you know?... and implus im shy.. argh... like maybe im wrong. Link to comment
Daddy Bear Posted April 22, 2006 Share Posted April 22, 2006 i'm sure you'll think of something to say. what's the worst that can happen if you approach him? that he won't wanna go out with you? you're already not going out together! you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. if by chance you hit him up and he's not into it, you'll be embarrassed for a few minutes but at least you won't be agonizing over it like this. two shy people waiting for each other to get things moving is just painful. seize the day! Link to comment
ArmyGirl69 Posted April 22, 2006 Author Share Posted April 22, 2006 lol, yeh your right. ;p Link to comment
slash Posted April 23, 2006 Share Posted April 23, 2006 ahhh! I just realized your name was armygirl and not amygirl.........well armygirl your experiencing what many men(including myself) go through alot, NERVOUS AS A MOFO syndrome, welcome to the club, but if your a everyday hot gal I dont see why you would have any problems, try to find out something about this guy you could talk to him about maybe, does he play sports or is he in any clubs at school, i not a very good conversationalists, but im sure theres something you can think about. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Create an account or sign in to comment
You need to be a member in order to leave a comment
Create an account
Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!
Register a new accountSign in
Already have an account? Sign in here.
Sign In Now