mysterygirrl77 Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 I have posted other threads about this situation, but i have another question. I like this guy that I think or thought was interested in me too. This has been going on for about 5 months. I have read all those silly articles on how to tell he likes you and reading body language. But I also read about signs and body language of a woman. It appears as though I've been giving the "I'm not interested signs" and I can't figure out why. I really like this guy and want him to notice me, why would I be sending him negative signals? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 What exactly are you doing to send him "negative" signals? Link to comment
mysterygirrl77 Posted March 30, 2006 Author Share Posted March 30, 2006 Arms crossed, not really making eye contact, I don't talk to him alot but thats because I get really nervous and when I do talk it's really quiet, I smile but only when smiled at, stuff like that. Link to comment
Markers Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 you like the guy too much, it's the same reaction than when you should talk to your crush and you can't get words out of your mouth. Arms crossed = you protect yourself, from your crush, you sort of cover up, defence reaction. Really stupid eh? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted March 30, 2006 Share Posted March 30, 2006 Well, if you know you're giving off these signals try doing the opposite. Men are definitely NOT mind readers. Try appearing more approachable; make eye contact and hesitate to look away. Smile at him, see how he responds to you. I get nervous too, but be confident-really, what's the worst thing that could happen? As to "why" you're giving off these negative signals, probably not really a reason "why". Just human nature to get nervous around someone you like. Those articles are sometimes directed to show us what we may be doing that makes us appear unapporachable-and sometimes they're a bunch of bull Link to comment
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