Why is he like this?

[da12kan6el]

Thank you to those who responded =) appreciate it..we'll see what happens

[ladeedah]

Honey, when he bumped into you he most definitely knew u were there - he is shy and has no idea how to get into contact with u, he is awkward b/c he likes you!!!! Make it easy on the poor guy and start a conversation with him, helo him feel at ease...let us know what happens!

[ComputerGuy]

I second that - talk to him...I can be similar to him only even less forward than him and unless someone says something to me I won't really ever go anywhere with it because I am just too shy and introverted to do that.

[da12kan6el]

Me and him already talk. I was just wondering what his actions mean-if they do mean anything at all. Is he just being friendly or what?

[NJRon]

Usually when a guy is doing that it's because they are shy and they want to flirt but are afraid of rejection... so they try teasing and little pranks and such to feel out the situation.

[keenan]

I have a good friend who studies sex and flirting for a living (really!!), and she always says that physical contact like that--with no real excuse--is one of the biggest signs that somebody is interested in you. Well, it's actually a little more complicated: Her research suggests that if a girl 'accidentally on purpose' touches a guy, the guy will tend to interpret that as "Oh, she wants me," even though the girl may or may not actually be seriously flirting. But if a guy touches a girl, he's probably into her...or testing her to see if she's interested...but she may or may not pick up on it. I guess overall, it means guys are more likely to attach meaning to physical contact than women are (hello...really? ). I hope I didn't just really butcher my friend's research...and yikes, please don't be offended or yell at me if you disagree with those huge generalizations!

 

But the point is, love, it sure seems like he's flirting with ya. And we don't really need research to tell us that, eh?