Demonblade Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 I haven't been on in forever. Anyway, to keep it short, my best friend, Bridget, is very close to me. But last week one of her friends told me that Bridget is currently in a relationship. Now, yesterday I asked Bridget if she was actually dating someone and she said with a blank face and flat voice, "kinda". That was all she said. What does "kinda" mean in this? Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Maybe she is seeing the guy - but not in a relationship. Ask her. Link to comment
Demonblade Posted January 14, 2006 Author Share Posted January 14, 2006 Maybe she is seeing the guy - but not in a relationship. Ask her. So, how should I ask her? Link to comment
prettydance Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Why would she be secretive about it? Link to comment
Demonblade Posted January 14, 2006 Author Share Posted January 14, 2006 Why would she be secretive about it? I don't know. I'm the only one of her friends that didn't know. Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Just ask her. Bring it up, casually. Ask her how the guy is going - and if it's getting serious. Then, when she answers, acknowledge it and change the subject. Link to comment
Demonblade Posted January 14, 2006 Author Share Posted January 14, 2006 Just ask her. Bring it up, casually. Ask her how the guy is going - and if it's getting serious. Then, when she answers, acknowledge it and change the subject. Okay. I'll do that. But, can someone tell me why they think she wouldn't tell me? I mean, we've been best friends since practically before we met 6 years ago. Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 Maybe she forgot, or likes you, too - or didn't see it as something you had to know. There could be many reasons. Link to comment
Demonblade Posted January 14, 2006 Author Share Posted January 14, 2006 Maybe she forgot, or likes you, too - or didn't see it as something you had to know. There could be many reasons. So I guess I'll ask her why she didn't tell me. But, if she does like me, how would I know? (from her answer I mean) (I'm sorry if I'm asking too much) Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 (I'm sorry if I'm asking too much)[/QUOTe] Not at all - that's why I'm here, Demon. Well, it would be very obvious if she said something like: "I didn't want you to know.." You can also base her intentions from her behaviour. If she is being flirtatious, if she is being shy or if she is acting embarrassed. Link to comment
Demonblade Posted January 14, 2006 Author Share Posted January 14, 2006 Well, it would be very obvious if she said something like: "I didn't want you to know.." Just one more question. Would "I don't know" be a hint that she likes me? Link to comment
darkblue Posted January 14, 2006 Share Posted January 14, 2006 It could well be, but I wouldn't read too much into it. You will be able to tell more from her behaviour and how she acts around you - more than her actual words. Link to comment
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