offer of friendship

[metro23]

My Girlfriend of 4 months ended the relationship without even offering me friendship. She never even wished me luck or really even said a final goodbye. I told her I would not contact her again, she never responded and it's been 2 weeks. I can handle being rejected on a romantic level, add not wanting to be friends and it's like being kicked while you're down.

 

How can you go from being a somebody to being a memory overnight, damn this hurts.

[shyanne]

some people just can't be friends after they had a romantic relationship with someone. do you really want to be just her friend......

[metro23]

I don't actually want to be her friend, she told me not to contact anymore and I agreed and wished her luck, she did not respond and now I'm wondering if I meant anything to her.

[yelloemail]

wow,

this exact thing just happened to me and i was the one that did not offer the friendship. the reason i did not offer the friendship is because i feel as if you do not offer the friendship you don't have to worry about possibly getting back together with the person. i did value the friendship, but, i wanted to move on with my life. just my opinion as to why i wouldn't be friends with someone after a breakup.

[valenski]

She might have meant the world to you but you cant expect her to feel the same way about you. People react differently to a break up but usually there is a lot of saddness and anger. You could her ask if you meant anything to her but dont depend on the answer to that as any consolation.

 

Good luck.

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We love whole heartedly but then we are treated so cold heartedly so why do we go on loving?