Does he really like me?

[shy_one]

I have a guy friend and we hang out a lot and stuff..lately hes been flirtin' with me - and all my friends keep sayin' that he likes me. Well i emailed him about how i felt and he said that he was flattered i like him ..and that he loved hangin' out with me ..but didn't know if he liked me in the same way..well then i ask myself why does he flirt with me all the time!?! Well then i asked him if he would ever consider goin' out with me and he said that he really didn't wanna start a relationship with anyone right now..and i found out that he likes someone else and asked her out the day before or something and he told her how much she meant to him..so you do you think he really likes me? Should i move on? ..or try harder to get him? If i should try harder..how do i get him to want me?

[Heretic]

Well he's just starting a new relationship so I'd sit it out. Wait and see how it goes. He could end up breaking up with her shortly or be happy with her for a long time to come. What's important is he's involved and he's already made it clear he doesn't want a relationship with you. Trying harder may only drive him away and ruin the friendship.

 

Hope this helps.

[raggamuffin]

You have definitely made your feelings clear to him and he has made his clear to you. The best advice I can give you is to just leave it and be a good friend to him, this way you wont get hurt by constantly being rejected and he wont think that you are trying to break up his new relationship.

[idontakre6203]

I agree, it is very clear he doesn't want a romantic relationship with you, but just be patient and be a good friend to him... And if things don't last long between him and the girl, be there for the break, and comfort him.. Don't try to go for him now, just wait...Good Luck!