I'm in love with my bestfriend... HELP !!

[TheGirlNextDoor]

Well, actually that's not the real problem. I do love my bestfriend. But, there's something that kinda irritating for me. So, before the summer holiday, me and my bestfriend, which is a guy, we were really close to each other. He always came over to my house like every night. He also kept on calling me.

Most of the students in our school thought that we were together, like.. a couple. I started liking him, at the first time I saw him at school. 'Cause, I just moved to that school. Even all of our teachers thought so...

It's like, we kept on meeting and talking to each other 24/7, which was really good. But, at that time, I didn't know that my bestfriend knew that I like him. I think someone told him. That's why he kept on asking me, who do I like, and things like that, but I always answered, no one...I don't like anyone. And, we even likes to talk about our ideal lover. It was all great, until summer arrived. I went to some place with my family for summer vacation. During the vacation, we still talked to each other, eventhough it was only by MSN. But, suddenly it all changed. He never talked to me anymore. I mean, eventhough we talked, he never replied me like happily. I don't know what's wrong with him.

Then, summer had finish, I went back to school. He still didn't talk to me. Well, we do talk on MSN at night, but when we meet each other at school, or accidantely... he won't say anything to me. I think he's trying to avoiding me, and I don't know why.

I don't know what should I do... I really really need helps !!

[TheGirlNextDoor]

I'm so desperate right now. I couldn't think clear anymore ...

[AlwaysNeedHelp]

First of all, calm down..

 

then if he is moving away.. u cant run after him.. if he knows that u like him then u did ur part..

 

if he continues moving away like this, it doesnt mean he is interested... so just try to get out of this thing smoothly..

 

take ur time.. if he is interested it should develop and progress alone.. try not to think about it.. so u wont get mad if something didnt happen

[smallworld]

*Hugs* GirlNextDoor & Welcome to Enot! I think you should tell your best friend the truth, that you like him. It sounds like he repeatedly asked you about your feelings because he feels strongly about you and was hoping that you'd feel the same way. Perhaps the time apart made him think that you really meant it when you told him that you like "no one."

 

Call him up and let him know that he's the one and only "no one" for you. Good luck!