Trying to balance the scale of getting back together

[butterflycloud]

Thanks, perhaps we should role play it. Tonight Ill think about what to say and then Ill tell you tomorrow- just remember that you will have to play the role of the insensitive and aggressive ex

[sonjam]

I've had a lot of exposure, I think I will know what to say...

[butterflycloud]

I tried to think of something last night but Im not sure. Tell me what ideas you had!

 

Thanks Sonjam!!

[sonjam]

Ok, give me a bit of time, let's talk this afternoon!!

[butterflycloud]

Thanks sweetie, chat to you later then

[butterflycloud]

We3ll to be honest, and I know Im going to sound ridiculous now, but I feel guilty for telling him that I dont want to get back together- I know that I have to put myself and my son first but I still feel bad because I know that I will hurt him. And I know that not getting to be with a person that you want is really hard.

 

That is why I need something nice to say so that he does not feel rejected. I know that he has done terrible things to me but it is not in my nature to hurt people , no matter what they have done to me.

 

I also want to keep the relationship civil for my son's sake.