I'm not sure if i'm getting the right signals...

[Dark Starz]

There's this girl i've known for maybe about 2-3 years...However, we just "know each other" and havent really talked alot. But the past summer, basically out of nowhere, i called her up and asked her to go blading with me. She agreed and we went blading. That day, we had alot of fun, not only did we go blading, we played tennis, tried skateboarding, and finished by watching a movie. But however, after that day, I tried to make plans with her to go blading again or what not...but it just happened that we couldnt and didnt have compatable schedules.. So we just said okay, maybe we'll do it during the school year.

 

Now that it is the school year, i havent talked to her ... pretty much at all since the last time we tried to go out. She occationally says hi to me in the hallways but rarely.... so i decided to not say hi to her as well. I asked a few people already, and they are saying that i need to "give her space" and stuff and try not to take things so fast.

 

So anyway, tues night, i called her up to ask her some hw stuff, she seemed cheerful that i called. However, she was watching TV atm so she couldnt help me on my homework. So then i basically ended our conversation and hung up. Yesterday, we met in the hallway and we started talking, (how i'm not sure becuase whenever i am around her i tend to forget stuff), however, i remember the mood was that she was somewhat happy when i was talking to her. Either shes happy when i am talking to her, or shes like that with everyone.

 

Usually she is very shy and doesnt seem to talk to alot of people, but when she does, she seems pretty happy. So now, i want to know, if she likes me or not, since i am basically infautated by her and all...

 

Note: What i wrote here may be subjected to how i view things, so please take into consideraion as to "this is what i felt" kinda thing.

[south34]

lol i cant give any advice iam in kinda the same situation

[Spicy baby]

Try striking up a conversation with her again. Watch her body movements, our mannerisms leak our feelings. See if she seems nervous, like fidgeting or smoothing her hair. Is she distracted when she talks to you? By watching how her body reacts when she is talking you can read if she is in to youor just sees you as a friend. Then you can see if you still want to get with her.

[Dark Starz]

well i'm not sure...whenever she is talking to me..its usually in the hallway...so were usually walking...and i dont believe she is nervous, or fidgeting, or whatever...she is pretty calm and she doesnt seem to be distracted either...like say...pretty focused when talking to me.

 

Also, when you say "how does her body react"...i dont understand by what you mean...

[Spicy baby]

By watching her body react your reading her boby language. That way you can tell if she is just being nice or flirting with ya. Pay attention to her body language the next time you talk that is going to tell you if she is receptive to you.

[Dark Starz]

from what i recall...her body language is normal..she isnt the flirty type nor is she (i think) really playful. She's pretty reserve but sometimes when i ask personal questions, she will answer them no problem. But body language...i guess its like talking to another person..noramlly i think...not sure...she doesnt seem to portray alot of body language...

[skyteph]

I don't think she is interested, but that's just my opinion. Personally, if /I/ was, I'd make more of an effort to have conversations and what not, where as she was busy watching TV

[Dark Starz]

come to think of it...she was trying to talk to me while watching tv..but she never hinted for me to hangup...i just couldnt think of anything to say >_<....so yea...any new ideas as to if she likes me or not>

[segagirl]

You simply do not have enough information my dear. But the reality is, when a girls likes you...she will let you know in many ways....one of those is jumping on an offer to hang out.

If you must know, you will have to just bite the bulled and ask her to hang out with you again. Be specific with her, if she is into you, she will simply say yes...and make the time to do it.

Best of luck....

 

we want them to be as "into" us, as we are in them....never settle for any less