how should i approach this?

[lonelyguy]

ok there is this girl I am gonna go out with next week but im kinda worried because it seems like everytime she goes out with a guy they end up becoming friends after the first date. Anyone know how to get me out of that zone? Like any kinds of things I should do?

[t-rav]

first off, you need to make sure she realizes that you want something more than sex, (if not, dont lie to her and tell her this). most girls (the self-respecting kind) are looking for something more than sex. dont just try to get with her. perhaps a good move would be to take her to like a restaurant before you go see a movie or something. dinner is a hint at a want for something more than friendship (huge hint: you pay for her dinner too).

 

good luck

-travis

[t-rav]

hey forgot to tell you, if she has a rep for just being friends, maybe she isnt looking for any serious relationship. might want to make sure you ask her "would you like to go to a movie just with me saturday?"

 

good luck

[lonelyguy]

thats a funny story beacuse the last guy she went on a date with took her to dinner and that didnt work out haha.

[t-rav]

well not to say your screwed, but maybe she isnt looking for a guy to want her, but merely a guy to be with her, not as a friend. but no more than a friend. you know someone to talk to.

 

hope you find what you are looking for.

 

-travis