Update to: Step Up and Meet the Newest Fool

[BlueWave]

Hi everyone.

 

First I want to that everyone that responded to my original post. The update is that I've decided to act as if nothing was ever said. Only problem is that my male friend seems to have nervous tension around me now. I'm sure that will fade with time. I was very upset when I originally posted because of his "lying". My rational side now tells me that he was just doing what he needed to protect himself. I have to allow people to be who they are- not to react as I think they should (lesson to be learned there). My BF knows what happened and he's not pleased with it. My male friend avoids my BF every opportunity he gets. Again, that's to be expected I suppose. I hope over time, everything will return to normal and we can forget or get past all this uneasiness. I will know better than to over-react and will do a better job than to go on the attack so quickly.