Amp33 Posted November 11, 2017 Share Posted November 11, 2017 My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. The very first time we had sex, it was great. We both had been drinking and let our wild side out and it was amazing. BUT. For the first year of our relationship, he could barely get it up or keep it up. (And no He was not a virgin when we met) He claimed he was nervous and he would over think and it would make things worse. At this point we were having sex about once a week. Follow up almost a year later and he could definitely keep it up now, but he never ever ever initiated/s sex. Not once in this whole relationship. We have sex maybe once a month if that. He also does not do foreplay or allow me to bring toys into bed. Any time I try to talk about sex or discuss sexual things he gets VERY awkward and embarrassed. He's almost 26.. I don't understand why he's so uncomfortable about it. He's often "liking" half naked models pictures online, and if I initiate sex he's completely down for it. (But of course doesn't return the favor). I can't even try to talk to him about improving our sex life because it makes him weird and I know he won't try any pointers I give him.. Is it selfish that this makes me want to end the relationship? We live together. Have for most of the relationship. We have a life together. But our sex life might end it all... I don't know what to do to make him more comfortable. Link to comment
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