Still need some help!

[iloveu]

Hi everybody. I had liked this girl for about a year but she had been going out with another guy during that time. She also found out that I liked her but we both acted like she didn't know. She broke up with him last week and for valentine's day, i sent her this flower thing that my school is doing for a fundraiser where you send somebody a flower and a card. She really liked it. I want to ask her out but how long should I wait since she just broke up? Thanks.

[DN]

how serious was the r elationship and how distressed does she seem.

 

If you think she is ok then ask her before someone else does.

 

If not, then say that you would like to ask her out when she is feeling better and ask her to let you know.

[iloveu]

well she was the one that broke up with him and she seems fine right now. I don't think the relationship was that serious because they almost never saw each other outside of school and never even kissed. But does anybody think asking her out now is still too soon?

[DN]

in that case no - go for it before someone else does. Don't mention the ex at all.