Problems with seeing the ex

[drydupfob]

So, im a freshmen in college, my ex and I go to the same school. She broke up with me last March. I go to a pretty big school, but I sometimes bump into her. Its just so hard for me.... like I pretend like it doesn't bother me one bit. I always go up to her and just talk just to show her and my self that she means nothing to be anymore. Well the thing is, everytime i see her and her bf together. (one of my friends from highschool, Ya B#$ch move i know) i just get so upset. and usually I try to hook up with just some random girl who i think is sexually attractive. This has happened a couple of times now, I really dont know wat to do. Its like I feel nothing for those girls, but its like i just do it to prove to myself that im over my ex.

 

I was wondering if there are any advices you guys can give me regarding that.... I really dont know wat to do.

[hockeyboy]

know this..your a better person then both of them. if they were willing to do that to you and not feel remorse...they suck, they're not good people...and good people in the end always get the best

[ShuShu Fontana]

Don't go out of your way to talk to her. If you see her on campus, you see her. You don't have to say hello, you don't have to talk to her. Just keep walking, walk the other way.

The best way you'll show her you are over her is by not making a big deal out of going out of your way to talk to her.

[BlackSheep]

I felt the exact same thing after I broke up with my girlfriend. It's been about a month and a half and things are much better. Time is the best healer!

[drydupfob]

Not talking to her is ok. Like i could do all that, but I can't stop myself from not seeing her u know? Because we do eat at the same caffeteria and im bound to bump into her going to or back from classes.

 

I dono if anyone has felt this before. Like you feel the need to hook up with random girls just to prove to yourself that you are over her? I dono i feel so horrible when I do it. But i really can't help myself

[ShuShu Fontana]

It's called being on the rebound, sweetie. It happens to all of us. You're feeling insecure and looking for reassurance. There's nothing abnormal about it.

[drydupfob]

But its been a while.... like almost a year.... I dono how long this rebound thing would last, but i dono one of my close friend said that i was becoming one of those guys...... I really need to change my ways.... but i really dont know how...

[r_n]

i'm feeling you... my ex-bf likes to ruined my friendship with my friend... he knows that most of my friends are into him... so he tries to get them all... and i just dunno hpw to feel... i feel like breaking sown but i know i'm better than that... all i do is lye down on my bed and stare at the ceiling... i'm crazy for this guy but then i can't do anything.... i tried everyhting... i even stalk him... i know it's weird... police were involve i tried everything to get this dude back but i couldn't