BlackSheep

My girlfriend wants me to start touching her "down there" and I would really like to make her feel good. I'm just not sure what to do. What specific things can I do to make it pleasurable for her? Keep in mind this is over the clothes, she will probably be wearing a skirt.

I am also 16 and I never had any female friends either before this school year. It is really not as hard as you think. Just try to be friendly and make small talk with some of the girls in your classes. Keep in mind that girls are just people too, not some mythical creatures, and they like to talk about a lot of the same stuff that guys do. Most will probably be nice to you, and if not they're not worth your time anyway. Also, try joining clubs where you will be able to meet girls with similar interests as you. That way you will have something to talk about with them right off the bat. The secret is really just to be friendly and put yourself out there and I'm sure that you will make some new friends.

Yes of course she's interested. Go for the kiss next time!

By the way, never having kissed anyone at 15 is not a big deal. I just kissed a girl for the first time this year (16). Don't worry about it!

I don't see any reason why you shouldn't try to talk to her. I wouldn't invite her to the movies or anything like that right away, though. She might not feel like she knows you well enough yet. Start by just talking to her more in school and work your way up to that.

It's going to be hard for the first few weeks. Just keep going with the no contact and things will get better soon. Try to do things that will keep your mind off the subject, such as working out.

It sounds like she likes you, but I can't be sure without some more information. Has she brought up the subject of dating/relationships with you?

Get alone with her in a comfortable place (like a couch). Maybe put on some soothing music to help you get in the mood. Just relax and have fun Try not to think about it too much.

I felt the exact same thing after I broke up with my girlfriend. It's been about a month and a half and things are much better. Time is the best healer!

While you are talking to her, you could say "Hey (name), I have a question for you. Do you want to go to the movies (or anywhere else) with me this weekend?" If you think she likes you, there's not much to be nervous about. Good luck!

I haven't heard of this before, but like anything else, I'm sure there's people out there who like it.

Don't worry about it! Since you are going to the movies, you won't have to keep a conversation going the whole time. You should think of some things to talk to her about before and after the movie though. Do you have any common interests? If you don't know much about her, just ask her school, what she likes to do, etc. Good luck!

If this girl is a friend of one of your friends, it shouldn't be too hard to meet up with her again. Just tell your friend to invite you next time he is going out with the people from his college and make sure you get her number/e-mail this time!

Yes that's true. That's why it is important to get out there and start making friends! If you are in college, there's a great place to start!

I would love to have a girl ask me out